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If you are like most men out there, you probably have no idea what makes those
head-strong, powerful and intelligent career women "tick". I am referring to
those women you see in power suits, managing a company or running her own, who
seem completely invincible and on top of the world. These women know what they
want in life and they do not stop until they get it. They are fast talkers,
they can close a deal with a simple wink of the eye, they can make a male
subordinate cry with the slightest of disappointed looks and they will never
settle for anything less than perfect sexual equality. Furthermore, I think we
can all agree that these are the sexiest women out there. Men just love to
imagine what they have on underneath those designer suits.
The common train of thought and logic would lead you to assume that these women
are just as domineering in the bedroom behind closed doors. Generally speaking,
this is actually the furthest thing from the truth. Every person out there is
different with regards to their personality in life and what turns them on
after hours, and there will be many variations and deviances from the norm.
However, most of the fierce and passionate women in the workforce love nothing
more than to come home and be completely subjugated and ravaged by a very
strong and masculine man.
In all sexual relationships there must be a dominant and a submissive. Two
dominants or two submissives can get together and have magnificent sexual
experiences, but there will be a certain something lacking emotionally. Each
one will feel less psychologically satisfied because they will not be able to
express their dominant or submissive traits quite a comfortably as they should.
Pop culture tends to assume that people who are submissive during sex are doing
so because this is how they want to be perceived in life, they want to be
dominated. Even old psychology books will back up this old principle.
Fortunately, the psychology of arousal and the logic that lies behind fantasies
and the roles we play during lovemaking has been virtually re-written by Dr.
Michael J. Bader, the leading psychoanalyst in this delicious area of
expertise. To really sum up his new theories in a very rough manner, our sexual
desires are almost the opposite of who we are in normal everyday life
scenarios. His theories are applied to every sexual thought, idea and fantasy
and not just dominant and subordinate behaviors. His new book made me quite
hungry with dirty little thoughts.
A dominant women enjoys being submissive in bed because she is able to achieve
stimulation. It is impossible to feel any kind of guilt, worry, or anxiety and
become sexually aroused at the same time. Professional career women very often
feel like they are too overbearing towards men, too controlling and too
dominant. That causes a certain level of stress. This stress is completely
alleviated by becoming the submissive during intercourse thereby allowing her
to achieve stimulation. These and other new brilliant revelations have created
a paradigm shift in the psychology of sex. And I think it is divine to have an
in depth understanding of what makes the other person scream with hot blooded
delight.
Of course, every individual will have a specific dirty little secret which
turns them on and no two women are the same. This article applies to many
strong business women, but not all. It becomes important to discuss what makes
you turned on with your lover or find a reciprocal partner. But now many of you
men know our dirty little secret. If you are the type of man who enjoys a
dominant woman, the same logic applies to the quiet little librarian with the
cat eyeglasses on. She just might be a dom-femme complete with a torture
chamber in her home where she can break her male slaves. And don't forget
ladies ...... this same idea applies to men!
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