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Yes, opposites do attract, however the marriages that work the best are with
couples who have similar values, beliefs and interests. That's not to say you
should marry a carbon copy of yourself - that would get boring and tedious very
fast - (truly, how many of us want to marry ourselves?), but having a mate that
we know will work toward the same goals and has the same values, will go a long
way in keeping your marriage intact.
Having separate interests is also a big plus. While is wonderful to spend a lot
of time together, it's the quality that counts, not the quantity. True, there
are many couples who enjoy being together day and night - in fact, my own
marriage is much like that. We love to be and do many things together, however
we also have our own separate interests as well. Some time apart is good for
the majority of couples. It gives you new and fresh outlooks on your lives, not
to mention giving you both something to talk about that's apart from your daily
lives and interests.
Of course, it goes without saying that communication is probably at the top of
the list. Begin able to discuss dreams, goals and what's in your heart if very
important, as well as having someone who will listen closely to what you say
and having some empathy as to how your feel. That's not to say that your
partner wants to hear constant complaints about one thing or another. Yes, we
all need "a shoulder to cry on" occasionally, just don't make a habit of it.
Intimacy is also a very important part of keeping a marriage alive and happy.
And intimacy doesn't mean just sex. Being close, holding hands, relaxing in
each other's arms, speaking of your hopes and dreams of the future, helps to
build a close relationship and trust of your partner.
And don't think sex has to become boring. Spice it up by greeting your mate
wearing just a raincoat, or kidnap your partner and take them to a hotel
overnight. Plan dates and dress sexy...find ways to add excitement to your love
life. And remember, sex doesn't just start in the bedroom. Gazing at your lover
across a crowded room with a "come hither" look or whispering in his or her ear
of what you'd like to do later can go a long way in keeping the fire roaring in
the bedroom.
About the Author
Rose Smith is the owner of Wedding Themes and More, a website designed to help
you discover your perfect wedding theme. Find more great ideas, resources and
articles on her
Bride & Groom Tips page.