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What began centuries ago in China as a way of interpreting the natural world to
create more efficient agricultural systems and even study astronomy to
understand the passage of time is an age old institution named Feng Shui.
Through the ages feng shui (
pronounced Fung Shway ) has evolved due to
superstition and folklore into a belief system with five distinct components:
Wealth, Health, Fame, Career and Love. By understanding the basics, we can
control these areas of our lives by choosing meaningful symbols and images
which are related to these areas and placing these objects in very specific
areas of the house. The key principle here is that everything is connected
energetically which means that your thoughts, feelings and behavior are
influenced by your surroundings. Feng Shui masters have got this down to an art
form. There are so many details and specifics of feng shui that I would highly
recommend getting a book on it for your own knowledge and because it is so
fascinating. What is interesting enough is that I found it to be very similar
to the Wicca beliefs that are practiced in the west. There are many people who
swear by the benefits of Feng Shui in the home.
Let's get down to the fun part. You can Feng Shui your house for love. Turn
that pad into the love shack to attract love, keep love going strong and keep
the sex drive on high gear in the bedroom. What you want to do here is create
good
chi (good energy) and get rid of any
sha chi (harmful
energy).
The area of your house that represents your love life is the southwest corner
of your home. According to the experts, if this corner has good
chi,
the marriage or love aspirations of the home dwellers will be positively
energized but if it has bad
chi, let's just say that you won't be
getting any for a while; and that is putting it nicely according to these
experts. The element that represents love is Earth and so putting a rock,
crystal or boulder in the southwest corner of your home you will activate this
good
chi. Finally you need to energize this earth element with other
objects in the love corner. These objects can be crystal (Rose Quartz is
suggested), large and round decorative pots and jars, peacock feathers, silk or
real flowers, a globe, a symbol of the sun, a Chinese love knot made of red
rope which symbolizes undying love, love birds in a pair but never single or
ducks in a pair but never single, rose oil and two pink or red candles burning
which is known as the "tantric twins". All of these objects have ties with the
earth element but you do not have to use all of them. It is also said that wood
is a harmful element to the earth element so no wood should be here. No dried
flowers as well because it could signify the death of a romantic relationship.
And just in case you are planning to buy a new house or rent a new apartment,
there should be no kitchen or bathroom in the southwest corner of the house. If
there is a bathroom, use plants to drown out the
sha chi but a kitchen
is a bigger problem since a kitchen in this area symbolizes infidelity on
either side.
The bedroom can also be worked on. It should be well lit instead or dark and
dreary. There should be no plants in the bedroom because plants will bring
excess
yang (male) energies to the bedroom which could increase his
libido and cause a wandering and lustful eye towards younger women. There
should be no TV's and no mirror by the bed as they cause an intrusion within a
relationship. Hang a rose quartz crystal over the southwest corner of your bed.
When looking for love, feng shui-ists say a man should decorate with more
yin
(femininity) in mind while a female should decorate with more yang. This causes
a healthy balance and will attract the opposite sex.
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