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Are
you happy with your lovelife or would you like to see it improved?
No matter who you are, there are times when "the bedroom" is not the loving and
fun room it should be. There are of course numerous reasons why this may happen
but there are some simple things you can do to help you make things better.
Your bedroom acts as a magnet both literally and metaphorically for your
relationships. It is also where you sleep during the night renewing your energy
levels in preparation for what the world has to offer to you the next day.
It is most likely where your romantic life is centered - unless of course you
like to experiment - perhaps you're a free spirit who likes to commune with the
outdoors ;-)
Your bedroom is your and your homes sanctuary.
The positioning and layout within it plays a massive role not only on your
passion and romance chances but also your health, wealth and other
relationships in general.
Careful attention should indeed be paid on this highly important room. When you
get it right, positive energy (called "chi" by the Chinese and "ki" by the
Japenese) will flow easily through your home.
Get it wrong...
All things in life are connected at the minute quantum level and the following
information will help guide you so you and your relationships flourish:
1. Make sure your bedroom "feels" inviting - it must fulfill the role of a place
of safety for you. When you look at the state of your bedroom now - what does
it say to and about you? Does it say "I'm at home with myself" or is it a big
jumble and in disarray? Is it just functional - it's purpose only for sleeping
in your eyes, if so - if you want your love life to change, then this has got
to change too.
2. Look around at all of the items - furniture/trinkets etc... in your bedroom.
Do you have good/loving memories and feelings for these items? Or are there
items which hold bad memories? If there are - get rid of them, they hold a
residual energy and act as a constant reminder to your non-conscious mind. How
about photos? Are there any old flames "hanging around" - again, chuck them out
- you do want to move on to a new relationship - don't you?
3. Your bed should be the focal point of the room - this is where both "action"
and "inaction" takes place, where you are both energized and renewed. Does your
bedroom have a "personality problem"? Is it in effect multitasking? Do you have
a home office or perhaps a treadmill beside you? Again, these items should not
be here. You want to focus on your relationships rather than your body or mind
in this room - move them out. If this is not possible due to space constraints,
you will need to use a screen to keep them "at bay".
4. The ever present TV. Yes it can be cosy to curl up in bed and watch a great
movie but a TV sends out a stream of positive ions (rather than positive chi) -
this device is "yang" in nature and will ensure your body does not get the rest
it requires. It also represents a 3rd party in the room - not particularly
conducive to a stable and healthy monogomous relationship... Once again - the
TV has got to go.
5. Make sure your bed is as far away from the door to your room as you can. If
you are unable to see the door, you will feel ill at ease at a subconscious
level - this is because you will sense you cannot see if an intruder will enter
your room (heaven forbid!). This unease will of course impact how you rest at
night.
6. Choose a bed which has a solid and sturdy headboard. In Form School Feng
Shui, the headboard represents a supportive mountain to your back.
7. Your bed holds residual energy from those who have come and gone before. In
an ideal world, if you have had a partner and wish to attract a new one, you
should purchase a new bed. This gives you and your new relationship an optimal
chance to flourish. Regardless, you should invest in the best bed you can as if
you sleep 8 hours per day, this means you will spend 1/3 of your entire life in
it!
About the Author
Tracy O'Brien is a long time student and practitioner of the ancient art of Feng
Shui. She is also the founder of FengShuiAstrology.com. For more Feng Shui Tips
and a free Feng
Shui Astrology Personality Profile, visit
http://www.fengshuiastrology.com