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Unless you know who you're dealing with, do not provide your personal
information such as full name, address and phone number. This will ensure your
physical safety. Most people are harmless and genuine about seeking a partner
in love, but the Web is full of individuals with ill intentions. This is not to
say that these individuals migrate to our site, but common sense in any
arrangement must be applied. This same advice would hold true for meeting
someone through the newspaper personals and other options.
Tip #2: Carefully Choose Your Online Name
If you are female and you intend to spend your time online in various chat
rooms or signing up for various free e-mail accounts and you don't want to
invite sexual innuendo or the virtual equivalent of a whistle and an uninvited
sexual reference, then choose a gender neutral name. Of course, if your
intention is to invite advances from men, then choose a feminine name, but be
prepared for an onslaught of advances. This tip doesn't apply to women only,
though, as the Web is full of very assertive women who will target nicks of the
male variety. By choosing a gender-neutral identity online, you afford yourself
the option of revealing your gender identity (or more) when you're comfortable
in doing so.
Tip #3: Have Your Wits About You When Meeting in Real Life
If and when you decide to meet your online friend, don't go alone. Bring a
group of friends along with you and schedule your meeting during the day and in
a public place. The person you are meeting, if they are worthwhile, will agree
to your request to meet in the safest possible surroundings.
Tip #4: Trust Your Instincts
Too many of us don't trust our instincts and betray them, often to our own
detriment. Our instincts are always trying to tell us something. Learn to trust
your instincts. If something about your online encounters feels uncomfortable,
you can almost bet that an in-person encounter will feel the same. With this in
mind, don't lead someone on in e-mail. If you get an immediate sense that they
are not your type, let them know politely by giving them the digital equivalent
of "let's just be friends." If you lead someone on and their emotions get the
best of them, there will be trouble. If they persist even after you have
proclaimed disinterest, ignore them. This includes their repeated e-mails. If
this doesn't work, retain their messages and forward them to their online
service provider. It is rare that situations ever get to this point, but if
they do, retaining such information will assist you should you ever have to
take further action.
Tip #5: Beware of Totally Free Personals Services
Sure, there are an abundance of free personals services across the Web. Many of
the larger Web directories offer such services. When a service is entirely
free, be cautious of the quality of the individuals with whom you correspond.
Free services are easy targets for devious or insincere types because of that
fact: they're free. More often than not, individuals who opt for a pay service
are usually seeking quality, not only in the service itself, but in the other
people who also participate.
As with any online activity, the best advice for online dating is pretty
simple: exercise common sense. Think of the Web in terms of a large city. If
you were a tourist in California, you wouldn't give your name, address, phone
number and credit card number to just anyone on the street. Right?
Source: DatingRev
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